Saturday, November 18, 2006
Guys
After being deprived from internet connection for so long, I totally lost contact with my friends. As soon as “ARAB” (the unknown human being who supplies us with wifi. Or should I say we steal his wifi? :p) on his connection, I went online. Once I logged into MSN, I saw my friend, A with a very negative nick. I approached her to ask what happened. This is a simplified version of our conversation.
A: I dunno what is wrong. He wants to reconsider our relationship. He said we have different attitude. He wants to breakup.
Mel: What?? After being together for 4 years only he realizes you two have different attitude?? And he wants to break up becz of that?
A: I dunno. He said it’s not totally break up yet. It’s just a cooling down period. He wants to cool down and reconsider this relationship.
Mel: What else did he say? Is it becz of any third party?? Or distance?? It can’t be because of different attitude.
A: I know. I did ask him. He said it’s not any third party or even distance. He knows he still loves me. But, he’s feeling weird about this relationship. He said I’m too good for him. He’s not good enough for me.
Mel: Dear, ur having ur STPM next week. Don’t think so much. Concentrate on ur exam first.
A: I can’t. I can’t la Mel. I tried. I can’t do anything but to think of him. I dunno what to do if he really wants to break up. I won’t be able to accept the fact. I love him too much to let him go. I cry everyday thinking of this.
Reasons why I hate guys (Writing style adapted from hoaxflasher,2006)
1. They are STUPID!!
- He needs 4 years to figure out that there are attitude differences between them! How stupid can he be right?
- If he still loves her, why would he want to leave her in the first place? Where is the logic in that? Oh, I guess he’s too stupid to figure out the logic!
2. They are selfish people
- She is having her STPM next week. And at this time only he wants to break up. Come on la. She is the studious type. And she can’t even concentrate for her exams now. He will only be happy if she fails izit? So inconsiderate. Selfish people!
3. They cannot be trusted
- Their words cannot be trusted. I love you forever la.. I will do anything to be with u la.. I don’t mind sacrificing myself for u la.. U’re the one and only reason my heart is beating la.. BULLSHIT!!
4. They are indecisive
- He can’t even decide whether to continue the relationship or to breakup. It’s not totally breakup yet, just cooling down period?? What nonsense?? It’s like asking her to forget him but at the same time giving her the chance to put hope in their relationship.
5. They are way too lucky
- Those who are not handsome also can have pretty gf.
- Those who are not smart also can do well in their exams. ( He got 9 A’s for his SPM and he can’t even figure out the differences earlier!)
6. They are un-understandable
- Break up means break up la. What’s with the cooling period? Keep on dragging the time and make her suffer even more.
- Why would he wana leave her if she treats him good? If he is not good enough for her, then change himself la. Be a better person that can suit her la. And for this too, took him 4 years to realize that he is not good enough for her!
7. They are unpredictable
- He can treat her so well and the next day say wana break up. One moment he is her bf and the next moment he is not. Why would he be with her for 4 years if the relationship is weird? After treating him so well he still wants to break up? What else he wants?
8. They dunno how to appreciate good thing
- She is smart, pretty and willing to sacrifice for him. Being with him for 4 years and not complaining any of his weaknesses, accepting him for who he is, remain loyal although they are far from each other and being with him whenever he needs her, he can still say he wana break up! He should NOT even THINK of it. Wait, doesn’t that sound like stupidity? YES!! They are stupid. CONFIRM. Disahkan oleh SIRIM.
However, the above entry is my personal opinion of guys in such situation. I am not generalizing it to every single male human being in this universe. I am not discriminating or having any sex bias. I may sound as though I hate all the guys but I don’t. So please don sue me. Your cooperation is much appreciated. :)
A: I dunno what is wrong. He wants to reconsider our relationship. He said we have different attitude. He wants to breakup.
Mel: What?? After being together for 4 years only he realizes you two have different attitude?? And he wants to break up becz of that?
A: I dunno. He said it’s not totally break up yet. It’s just a cooling down period. He wants to cool down and reconsider this relationship.
Mel: What else did he say? Is it becz of any third party?? Or distance?? It can’t be because of different attitude.
A: I know. I did ask him. He said it’s not any third party or even distance. He knows he still loves me. But, he’s feeling weird about this relationship. He said I’m too good for him. He’s not good enough for me.
Mel: Dear, ur having ur STPM next week. Don’t think so much. Concentrate on ur exam first.
A: I can’t. I can’t la Mel. I tried. I can’t do anything but to think of him. I dunno what to do if he really wants to break up. I won’t be able to accept the fact. I love him too much to let him go. I cry everyday thinking of this.
Reasons why I hate guys (Writing style adapted from hoaxflasher,2006)
1. They are STUPID!!
- He needs 4 years to figure out that there are attitude differences between them! How stupid can he be right?
- If he still loves her, why would he want to leave her in the first place? Where is the logic in that? Oh, I guess he’s too stupid to figure out the logic!
2. They are selfish people
- She is having her STPM next week. And at this time only he wants to break up. Come on la. She is the studious type. And she can’t even concentrate for her exams now. He will only be happy if she fails izit? So inconsiderate. Selfish people!
3. They cannot be trusted
- Their words cannot be trusted. I love you forever la.. I will do anything to be with u la.. I don’t mind sacrificing myself for u la.. U’re the one and only reason my heart is beating la.. BULLSHIT!!
4. They are indecisive
- He can’t even decide whether to continue the relationship or to breakup. It’s not totally breakup yet, just cooling down period?? What nonsense?? It’s like asking her to forget him but at the same time giving her the chance to put hope in their relationship.
5. They are way too lucky
- Those who are not handsome also can have pretty gf.
- Those who are not smart also can do well in their exams. ( He got 9 A’s for his SPM and he can’t even figure out the differences earlier!)
6. They are un-understandable
- Break up means break up la. What’s with the cooling period? Keep on dragging the time and make her suffer even more.
- Why would he wana leave her if she treats him good? If he is not good enough for her, then change himself la. Be a better person that can suit her la. And for this too, took him 4 years to realize that he is not good enough for her!
7. They are unpredictable
- He can treat her so well and the next day say wana break up. One moment he is her bf and the next moment he is not. Why would he be with her for 4 years if the relationship is weird? After treating him so well he still wants to break up? What else he wants?
8. They dunno how to appreciate good thing
- She is smart, pretty and willing to sacrifice for him. Being with him for 4 years and not complaining any of his weaknesses, accepting him for who he is, remain loyal although they are far from each other and being with him whenever he needs her, he can still say he wana break up! He should NOT even THINK of it. Wait, doesn’t that sound like stupidity? YES!! They are stupid. CONFIRM. Disahkan oleh SIRIM.
However, the above entry is my personal opinion of guys in such situation. I am not generalizing it to every single male human being in this universe. I am not discriminating or having any sex bias. I may sound as though I hate all the guys but I don’t. So please don sue me. Your cooperation is much appreciated. :)
The Princess